1000 Days Sober Podcast

The AFAF Shift: Episode 3: Navigating Identity, Longing, and The Liquid Lie: Unpacking the Teenage Years

Welcome to Episode 3 of The AFAF Shift! This poignant episode dives deep into the turbulent waters of adolescence—a time fraught with identity crises, unrequited love, and the insidious onset of alcohol reliance. Through the lens of Erik Erikson's psychosocial stages, host Lee Davy revisits his teenage years to unravel the 'Liquid Lie' society often tells us, where alcohol becomes a damaging rite of passage. Tune in for a captivating blend of personal storytelling and psychological insight that reveals how these formative years set the stage for later relationship dynamics, addictive behaviours, and the perpetual quest for external validation. Lee also opens up about his transformational journey and offers actionable steps for developing a more conscious, SELF-led life. Don't miss this episode; it promises to be as impactful as it is revealing. See you on the other side of the 'AFAF Shift'!

 

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On Trust: A Conversation With Janey Lee Grace

Janey Lee Grace is an Amazon No 1 Best-selling author, speaker, and was co-presenter on the UK’s biggest radio show, BBC Radio 2’s  Steve Wright in the Afternoon for 24 years. Formerly she was a backing singer with Wham! Kim Wilde and Boy George, had her own number 8 chart hit as Cola Boy with 7 Ways to Love.

Janey has written five books on Holistic living including the number One Amazon best seller Imperfectly Natural Woman and her latest book is Happy Healthy Sober – Ditch the booze and take control of your life which encourages everyone to look again at their relationship with alcohol.

After ditching the booze Janey launched a podcast ‘Alcohol Free Life’ focusing on sober self-care, she gave a TEDx talk Sobriety Rocks- Who Knew!  and runs The Sober Club, a platform offering a non-judgemental community for people who are committed to sobriety and want to ‘upscale’ their life without the booze and focus on health and wellbeing.

Janey is passionate about encouraging people to ditch the chemicals, focus on great nutrition, selfcare, and finding their purpose as she found for herself that quitting the booze was the missing link in the ‘holistic living’ picture. She also offers coaching and is trained in EFT, Matrix Re-imprinting and NLP. 

Janey is married with 4 children and lives in Hertfordshire but longs to be by the sea.

Links

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www.janeyleegrace.com
www.imperfectlynatural.com

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The AFAF Shift: Unearthing My Past to Build a SELF-led Future: Episode 2: The Boy on Shelley Road: A Tale of Two Selves

In the latest episode of the 1000 Days Sober Podcast 🎙️, join me, Lee Davy, as I delve into my childhood experiences between the ages of 5 and 10 🧒.

 

Using Erik Erikson's theory of psychosocial integration 🧠, I explore the concept of Industry vs. Inferiority and how it may have contributed to my reliance on alcohol 🍷 in later years.

 

This insightful and personal episode is the second in a continuing series to shed light on the complex relationship between our early life experiences and adult struggles 💡.

 

Don't miss this powerful and thought-provoking episode! 🎧 Please take a moment to rate ⭐, review 📝, and share the show 📢 with others who might benefit from this journey of self-discovery.

 

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The AFAF Shift: Unearthing My Past to Build a SELF-led Future: Episode 1 Before Day One: The Roots of My Struggle

Episode 1 - Before Day One: The Roots of My Struggle

 

In this premiere episode of "The AFAF Shift: Unearthing My Past to Build a SELF-led Future, " host Lee Davy takes listeners on a deep and intimate journey back to his beginnings - from before he was born.

 

In this episode, you'll discover

 

1. The traumatic circumstances of Lee's birth and how the feelings of fear, confusion, shame, guilt, and abandonment experienced by his young mother imprinted on him before he ever took his first breath.

 

2. How our physiological makeup can be shaped by trauma even before birth.

 

3. The struggles Lee faced as a half-Chinese child in a predominantly white community, the feeling of always being different, and the pressures that led him to seek refuge and acceptance in alcohol.

 

4. A brief glimpse into Lee's early childhood years, living with his grandparents and mother's siblings, and the significant change when his mother met the man Lee would know as his father.

 

5. The concept of the 'window of tolerance' and how trauma can lead to challenges in maintaining it.

 

Key quotes from the episode

 

- "Trauma doesn't need you to be aware or conscious to set its roots in you. It can develop in your physiology before you even enter this world."

- "Being half-Chinese in a predominantly white community, I felt the sting of difference, the longing to belong."

- "The intense reactions I had when interacting with other children were signposts. Signposts pointing to a trauma that started before birth and resurfaced throughout my life."

 

Links mentioned in this episode

 

- The STRIVE Community - Join our supportive community where we strive to live a SELF-led life together.

 

Stay tuned for our next episode as we delve deeper into Lee's journey, experiences, and path towards healing and sobriety. 

On Reaching 1000 Days Sober: A Conversation With Oli Hollis

Oli Hollis is an HPD-accredited Clinical Hypnotist and a registered Physiotherapist with the HCPC. His speciality is managing pain, particularly in conditions like fibromyalgia, employing years of expertise. Oli also uses hypnosis as a remarkable tool to aid in managing diabetes through dietary changes, promote weight loss for those facing orthopaedic surgeries, and encourage healthier lifestyle choices.

 

Beyond physical health, Oli assists individuals in overcoming addictions, such as smoking and excessive drinking. His work doesn't stop there. He addresses various anxiety-related issues, helping people conquer everything from stage fright to specific phobias. For general anxiety cases, Oli uniquely combines the principles of psychology and hypnotherapy; if the situation calls for it, he collaborates with doctors and clinical psychologists. 

 

Oli is also a STRIVER who recently celebrated 1000 days AFAF, so I asked him to come onto the show. 

 

If you want to hire Oli, here is how to do so.

 

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My Wife Won’t Have Sex With Me & I Resent Her With Dominique D’Vita

🎙️ New Episode Alert! 🚀 We are thrilled to welcome the phenomenal Dominique D'Vita on the latest episode of the 1000 Days Sober Podcast!

Dominique, a Registered Nurse and a Certified Transformational Tantra Coach joins us for a deep and insightful conversation titled "My Wife Won't Have Sex With Me & I Resent Her". A more common topic than we care to admit, it's a narrative that can often fuel unhealthy coping mechanisms, such as alcohol abuse.

Dominique believes in the power of science blended with spirituality to help us understand our bodies, develop self-respect, and deepen our connections with our partners. She shares her profound insights and advice on navigating such complex relationship dynamics in this episode.

Can her holistic approach to self-love and soulful, connected love help men battling with resentment and potential alcohol abuse? Tune in to find out! You'll find that Dominique is the coach who teaches you to truly experience ultimate bliss and how to get the most out of life. 🌈

Listen to the 1000 Days Sober podcast episode available across all major media players. And if you're a man struggling with erectile dysfunction, check out how Dominique can help - follow this link: https://youtube.com/watch?v=O0d6eTScdzw&feature=sharea

Let's create a world where we live fully, from a place of magic, love, and abundance. 🙏✨

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Building the Best Possible Relationships: With Michael Bungay Stanier

📢 Check out this captivating conversation with Michael Bungay Stanier! 🎙️✨

🌟 Michael Bungay Stanier is a renowned expert in helping people realize their awesomeness and achieve greatness. He's the author of "The Coaching Habit," the best-selling coaching book of the century and a true classic. His latest masterpiece, "How to Work with (Almost) Anyone," uncovers the secrets to cultivating outstanding relationships in the workplace. 📚🌍

💡 Join us as we delve into the realm of meaningful connections and discover seven powerful questions that can make others feel seen, heard, and valued. 🤝❤️

🎭 Dive into the fascinating concept of the drama triangle and explore how to navigate its ups and downs. Learn why curiosity is a remarkable superpower and how to unleash its full potential. 🌟✨

🧠 Gain insights into the transformative difference between being in SELF and unconsciousness, and unlock the keys to fostering harmonious collaborations. Discover the essence of Michael's newest book, "How to Work With (Almost) Anyone," and uncover the wisdom it holds. 📖🔑

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🌟 Explore the realm of connection, growth, and personal mastery with Michael Bungay Stanier. Tune in now and let his wisdom empower you to create meaningful relationships at work and beyond! 🎧💪

 

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The Yin & Yang of the Masculine and Feminine Part 1: With Kristian Martinow

🎙️ Just had a mind-expanding conversation with Kristian Martinow on the "1000 Days Sober Podcast"! 🌟 We explored the fascinating interplay between the masculine and feminine energies, diving deep into their manifestations and the power of understanding them. 💫✨

In this captivating episode, we discussed how embracing both our masculine and feminine sides can lead to personal growth, stronger relationships, and a more harmonious existence. 💪❤️

Kristian, a mentor and coach, shared profound insights on living a life oriented to wellness, redefining masculinity in the modern world, and fostering compassionate connections with our partners. 🌸🌿

Join us on the "1000 Days Sober Podcast" to listen to this enlightening conversation. Trust me; you don't want to miss it! 🎧 And if you find value in the episode, please rate, review, and share the show to spread the knowledge! 🙌🔥

Tune in now to explore the yin and yang of the masculine and feminine, and discover how these energies can shape your life and relationships. 🌟✨

You can find Kristian on his website here.

If you want to live a SELF-led life AFAF then...

 

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Beyond Expectations: Creating a Fulfilling Journey of Self-Discovery: A Conversation With Roberta Mussato

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Onto Our Guest…

Roberta Mussato was born in Treviso, Italy. At eight, she started writing her first journal, a habit she would never give up. After a degree in conference interpreting in English and Russian in 2006, Roberta moved to crazy London, where she still lives.

In 2018 she decided to go backpacking on her own for three months in Asia to escape from a generalised, deep crisis that had seen her feeling stuck and very low for two years. Reasoning that all her pain came from unmet expectations, she decided to experiment for those three months, not plan a single thing to see how life can be when you have no attachments. She talks about how it all went in her first book, "Universe, I Trust You", which came out initially in Italian and then in English and will be shown on the Nasdaq billboard in Times Square on June 20th, 2023. 

That trip was a watershed in her life, proving that a deep crisis could be the springboard to exciting new chapters. Changing the question from "Why do they always happen to me?" to "What for?" and following her vision in Nepal, she is now a certified Master Life Coach and NLP Practitioner who helps her clients get unstuck and live a more aligned life.

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"The cave you fear the most holds the biggest treasure for you."

What Your Feelings Are Trying to Tell You: A Conversation With Karla McLaren

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🎙️ NEW EPISODE ALERT 🎉

 

🎧 Tune in to the latest episode of the 1000 Days Sober Podcast, where we dive deep into the journey of living a SELF-led life AFAF with the incredible Karla McLaren! 🌟

🌱 Join us as Karla shares her empowering insights and wisdom on navigating life without alcohol.

🚀 Discover how to unlock your true potential, cultivate emotional intelligence, and create a life filled with purpose and authenticity.

💪💚 🔥 Get ready to explore the power of emotional intelligence, self-compassion, and genuine connection while embracing an alcohol-free lifestyle.

🌈✨ 💬 Leave a comment below sharing your biggest takeaways from this eye-opening conversation with Karla McLaren! Let's inspire and support each other on this journey to sobriety.

💭💬 🎉 Don't forget to listen to the full episode and rate and review the show  ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐

Your feedback matters and helps us reach more individuals who are ready to embrace a SELF-led life AFAF.

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